Tuesday 18 December 2018

First Impressions of Cambodia


“Language learning is ministry; ministry is language learning.”  OMF Daniel Learning


It is good to finally write to you from Cambodia.  I am so excited that I am in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, at last!  All that praying and preparation and hoping and trusting and envisioning – well, let’s just say that that is over and a new journey begins.  I thank God for everything for it is from him and through him and to him are all things.  Hallelujah! 


Language learning at OMF Cambodia Centre.  Was sharing my 
testimony with the team when I wore my traditional (Maasai) dress.

So, I have been here for the last 28 days and there is so much I can write about but let me restrict this update to the question that most people have been asking me – what are your first impressions of Cambodia?  When I look at the capital city of Cambodia, Phnom Penh, at quick glance it almost looks like Nairobi.  But when I give it a second glance, it is very different.  There is one street I passed through and it gave me the impression that I was in Ngong Road in Nairobi (the section where they make and sell furniture).  The street in Cambodia also sells furniture but on closer look, it is not chairs, tables and beds that are being sold there, it is actually spirit houses (see photo below).  Spirit houses are everywhere in city.  Almost every Cambodian has one outside their house or business premise.  They use it to offer food/drinks to spirits or departed ancestors.  Cambodia is a Buddhist country but it is not pure Buddhism.  At the heart of Buddhism here, is spirit worship and animism.  When I walk around and see the spirit houses around Phnom Penh, I am reminded of Paul in Athens (Acts 17) where found a very superstitious people worshipping an unknown God.  I am very saddened at the spiritual state of this nation. 

Spirit houses being sold in the street
The people have been really friendly to me and that has been an affirmation that God has sent me here.  I was told that the Cambodians look down on people with dark skin and that I might even have trouble at the immigration at the airport.  But my entry into Cambodia was very quick and smooth.  I was not asked any questions and one of the immigration policemen even helped me glue back my Visa which was not properly glued to my passport.  Praise God for that.  I found a house and moved in at the beginning of December (praise God again J ) and it is not far from the OMF Centre where I go for language learning every day.  As I walk to go for language learning Centre, people smile at me and I say hello and they say hello back.  Others even try to talk to me sometimes but because I still don’t have a clue of what they are saying, I just smile.  My neighbor has agreed to practice language with me and we are planning to go to the market together for me to just go and observe what happens at the market.  So praise God for people who have been willing to teach me some words in Khmer like at restaurants and even while taking a tuktuk ride.  That has made me feel welcome here and I feel at home here in many different ways.  Well, until we people start talking and I can’t get a word of what they are saying, then I remember I am not home.



More language learning.  I have four teachers who are teaching
me survival Khmer, consonants and vowels and constructing
simple sentences.
And speaking of language, my main ministry assignment for the next one year is purely language learning and cultural observations.   When I first got here, my head used to hurt at the end of the day because I was trying so hard to listen and pick a word or two of what people are saying.  Also, looking at the Khmer script was very frustrating because when I got here I could only identify the Moh () consonant.  Now I am happy to say that my head does not hurt as much as it did at first and I can now identify more and more consonants and even some of the vowels.  In addition to learning how to speak, write and communicate in Khmer, I am also observing the culture.  Like what are some of the things people do when they visit a home or an office or how do you give someone money?  I have observed that people remove shoes when they get into a house (be it an office, church or someone’s house).  That is something I am still getting used to.  I also have to get used to giving people money using both hands.  And speaking of money, we use both the Cambodian Riel and the US dollar simultaneously.  Go figure!

There is so much I could say but for now:-
  •   Give thanks to God for his grace this far.  It is very hot but I am adjusting to the heat slowly.  Also thank for my sending church and partners who have been very supportive in many different ways.  Thank God for the OMF Cambodia family who have received me well and continue to make sure that I have a smooth transition.
  • Please pray that each Cambodian will get an opportunity to hear the gospel and stop worshipping idols and turn to the true and living God.
  • Please continue to pray for me that God will give me a learning heart not only for the language but also to keenly observe the culture of the Cambodians so that I can be at home in their culture relating, serving and communicating effectively with them.




Wednesday 7 November 2018

Crossing Cultures: Greetings From Beautiful Singapore

“I have found that there are three stages to every great work of God; first it impossible, then it is difficult, then it done.” Hudson Taylor

One of my weaknesses is my love for bibles.  When I go to any library or bookshop, the first thing that catches my attention is a bible.  Last Wednesday I happened to go the library here at the OMF International Centre here in Singapore.  And true to myself, I looked at a few books but ended up in the bibles section almost immediately.  But these bibles were not my regular kind of bibles.  For starters, they were not in my language or a language I understand.  They were not even in a script I understand.  As I took one to look at, I found out that it was a Khmer Bible (the language and culture I am going to in Cambodia).  So I was even more interested and started going through it.  As I perused it, I could not tell whether I was in Psalms or Genesis or Ezekiel and neither could I tell the number of the chapters.  But something interesting happened, I got really emotional and I started crying.  So I put the bible down and left the library prematurely.

At this point I know you are wondering why I got too emotional of at a Khmer Bible.  I also wondered and as I continued to process my thoughts and my feelings, I realized that I have been thinking a lot about crossing cultures to the Khmer Culture.  I have many mixed emotions.  Let me see if I can share a few with you here.  Top of the list is my love for the Cambodian people – I feel an affection to a people I have never met and as I process my thoughts and my feeling, I am asking myself, will I still love them when I see them?  Will my heart still go out to them when I see them in the next two weeks?  Even more scary to ask, will they love me?  Will they accept me? How long will it take for me to learn their culture and their language?  Will I ever be at home within the Khmer culture? 

Isaac giving us his testimony outside his jewelry
shop at Tekka Market in Little India, Singapore
But as I consider my uncertainties of crossing into a new culture, it would be wrong of me not to mention how God has continued to encourage me in many different ways.  First, during our cultural plunge experience on Wednesday, my group and I were sent to Little India.  Singapore has a very rich and diverse culture and they in fact have four national languages.  As we went through the markets and streets in Little India, we could not help but observe the rich Indian heritage.  One of my highlights was meeting Isaac who happens to be a believer in a jewelry shop.  It was very encouraging to meet him because I did not expect to meet a believer there at all.  I felt like God was telling me that he has a remnant everywhere.  Isaac told us that he came to faith through dreams of Jesus and now he evangelizes to those around him.  Praise God!

Braiding Lois' slippery hair
Second, on Saturday I got an opportunity to braid one of my fellow Orientation member’s daughter’s hair.  Someone, may wonder, why would that be an issue?  Well, if you come from Kenya, then braiding hair is not out of the ordinary.  But then braiding “slippery” is a cross-cultural experience not only for the little girl who was braiding her hair for the first time but for me who braided “slippery” hair for the first time.  But it is really all about hair?  I don’t think so.  The little girl admired my hair and wanted her hair done the same way.  It showed me not only appreciation for me but also for my culture.  I was so encouraged that she would endure a whole two hours to have her hair braided by a “stranger” or am I?
Speaking to Buddhist monks
outside a Hindu Temple in Little 
India, Singapore.

The third thing God used to encourage me is a whatsapp message from one the girls I was discipling in Campus in Kenya.  Here is what she wrote “….However you have been on my mind all through.... You came to my life and made everything beautiful... Today i approach this life differently..today i am more wise,  today my relationship with Jehovah is not as it used to be,  today i am better because you came through.”  This encouraged me because as I thought about crossing cultures, it will probably be a long time before someone could say these words to me.  It would be a long before I could share the gospel in a culturally appropriate manner in the Khmer language.  But when I remember of what God has used me to do in the past, I am encouraged that he is able to do it again in the future despite the time it will take.  For now, I have to let God shape me more into his image as I observe the culture around me and as he strips me of my prejudices.

So while I consider the above quote by Hudson Taylor, that which seems impossible right now in term of culture and language learning, will eventually be done through God’s strength.

So:-
  • Praise God for Isaac and others like who are reflections of God’s light in a very dark world.  Pray for boldness as he shares Jesus - he told us that people hate him because he preaches Jesus to them.
  • Thank God for how he encouraged me through Isaac’s story.  Pray that I will continue to notice God’s work of grace in my life and in the lives of those around me since he is always working (John 5:17)
  •  Pray for God’s enablement as I transition from Singapore to Cambodia on Nov 20th and as I learn the language and culture of the Khmer people.  Pray that I will fit well within the OMF team in Cambodia and for a language and culture helper.




Friday 12 October 2018

The Fields Are Ripe For Harvest


“Do you not say, 'Four months more and then the harvest'? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest.” John 4:35 (NIV)                                                                                           



  As I look forward to leaving Kenya on the 22nd of this month, one of the things I am doing, apart from packing, is saying goodbyes.  In September I had an opportunity to do so to some students I was working amongst at Kenya Science during my training with the Navigators. 

2018.09.23 – My cell group members and
 me after the commissioning service.

      On the evening of September 13th, I was met with familiar faces and others were not so familiar.  I was happy to find some students that I had walked with the previous year.  But my highlight was meeting one of the first year students (Karen*) whom I had an opportunity to speak with after the meeting.  

      As Karen stood to leave her chair, I felt this love for her in my heart that compelled me to speak to her. I called her over to where I was and I held her hand as we spoke.  One of the questions I asked is when she gave her life to Christ.   She told me she had backslidden earlier this year and was thinking of recommitting her life to Christ.  When I asked her if she would like to do that right there and then, she said yes.  I didn’t believe she had said yes and so I rephrased the question and I asked her again and again she said yes.  At this point I called one of my co-laborers and we prayed with her and she made her life right with God.

          As I thought about the whole incident later, I was made aware of the doubt in my heart and I am praying that God will strengthen my faith and trust Him when he brings people whose hearts he has worked on and are ready to walk with the Saviour.  He says in his word that the fields are ripe with the harvest.  Karen’s story is an example of a heart ready for harvest.  Would you pray with me that as I go to Cambodia I will open my eyes to see the ripe harvest.

  •  Please pray for Karen that she will be grounded and rooted in the Word.  Pray for people who will come alongside her to help her in her walk of faith.
  • Thank God for that amazing commissioning service that we had on the 23rd of September.  Also thank Him for all the partners who are standing with me through their prayers and their giving.
  • Please pray about language and cultural learning.  Please pray that God will help me in the one year that I will be learning the language/culture to be at home within the Khmer culture and OMF culture.

  
*Name changed



Friday 7 September 2018

Journey To Cambodia

When I think of my journey to Cambodia, I think of when God first laid the burden for Cambodia in my heart in 2015.  I thought I will just apply with a Missionary agency and in a few weeks I will be in a plane to Cambodia.  What I did not know then was that it was going to be a process and to get to Cambodia will take longer than I had anticipated.

It has been 3 years since God laid the burden in my heart and I am still not in Cambodia.  I started my application with OMF in June 2016 when I was still training with the Navigators.  In January 2018, I started my support raising in preparation for Cambodia.  Overseas Mission Fellowship (OMF) whom I am going to serve with needed me to have four clearances before I could go.  I needed the Medical Clearance, Homeside Clearance, Field Clearance and Financial Clearance.  By the grace of God, I received all the four clearances by the end of June 2018.  

I will be leaving for Singapore in October 22nd 2018 for 3 weeks of orientation and trusting God to be in Cambodia in November 20th 2018.  I will be in Cambodia for an initial commitment of 3 years and my first assignment will be to learn the Khmer language and the Cambodian culture for a year.  The next two years I will be involved in ministry assignments as my leaders see fit.  I am really excited and I can’t wait to get to Cambodia.  One of the promises God has given me is in Matthew 28:19-20 which tells me that he will be with me.

At the Navigators Send Off – being 
prayed for and commissioned to go.
Going forward, please: -         
    • Thank God for the progress thus far and for support I have received from partners, friends and my sending church – Deliverance Church Kahawa Sukari (DCKS)
    • Pray that God will raise partners to stand with me for the remaining needed support so that I will have all that I need to do the work in Cambodia (2 Cor 9:8)
    •  Pray that as I go to Cambodia, I will have a smooth transition and that God will give me knowledge and skill and that I will be quick to learn the Khmer language and culture( Daniel 1:17)
    •  Pray that the 42 people groups in Cambodia will hear the gospel and that they may put their faith in Christ who die for them (Rev 5:9)